I enjoy writing about’Relationships’ because it’s one of my favourite subjects. Honestly, today relationships have proven to be like the’changing of clothes’ each day. We as human beings have conformed to the practices of the world, and we swing by as the world does. But if you aren’t able to foster or cultivate one relationship, then you aren’t likely to nurture the other. Though, there is one exception in my view to that which I just stated; it is not to target those relationships that are abusive, where the sufferer female or male is physically or mentally abused. We get to live life once, and it doesn’t mean that we succumb to any relationship that is torturous in nature.
After conducting a short research study about the subject, it is realized that different writers have made varying observations concerning this subject. Each writer expresses his/her own opinion as they perceive and define’relationship’.
Switch’on’ your Positive Behavior in Relationships
Writer Carr in’Positive Psychology: The Science of Happiness and Human Strengths’ stated that positive psychology is related to the positive emotions and affection in your relationship. If you love and care about your partner then it is obvious that you will work towards sharing a positive connection.
Quit seeking Perfection in your partner
The understanding is important that we are human beings, and not one of us is perfect. Therefore, we cannot expect perfection in our partner. There will be certain behaviors that may irritate, or there might be some weaknesses which are too tough to take, but the bottom line is you need to deal with those behaviors in a positive way without humiliating or demeaning your partner. As opposed to reacting impulsively to those behaviours, you can wait for the ideal time to talk with your partner about certain behaviors that seem annoying. The confrontational talk needs to be non-judgmental, so that your partner is a excellent recipient to your concerns.
Overcome the Temptation
As we are living in a new age it has become easy to change partners or proceed without giving a thought to your connection. The biggest temptation nowadays seems to be’gap-fillers’. Gap-fillers are those’so-called friends’ who make an entry in your life at just the wrong moment. If you face challenging times in your marriage or dating relationship, then it’s normal that you have a friend who acts as your spouse replacement. He/She is full of all the great talks, assurances and might even want you to believe life is worth living, so why live with a partner you aren’t pleased with?
But if you think really heavy, it may be analyzed or assessed if you can’t live or put up with one spouse, then there is no guarantee that you are able to put up with a new partner. The beginning days of a new and rosy relationship might seem to be the best, but you never know when the same relationship may turn into a own worst.
The best advice once your marriage or relationship is not working would be to wait patiently and to give yourself and partner the opportunity to figure out whether it is truly over, and for real reasons so that you don’t get an opportunity to regret in life for missing out on the very best.